auntie pass away

my uncle's wife had just passed away.

the wake will last til tue but we all went home to sleep. her niang jia members are there to help out the wake.
not much things to do cos they were folding the papers for burning. so we just sit there and chat.

normally the family will meet twice a year, on cny and grandma's birthday.
but this aunt did not turn up on granny bday this yr. she had suffered a stoke a few years ago and managed to partial recover.

i went to the site on fri night after getting the news from dad. today i rushed there after OT and visiting coi's performance site to give them mental support cos i skipped this performance due to the exam in june.

tomorrow i have plans of going down but pending if my cousins going or not. else sian to be alone.

i was alone there on fri night til my bro came abt 1hr later. sit there look at ppl walking n drinking my drinks.

my mother's sister came also. then she made me realised something...
she said 'ur grandfather passed away on chu 3, ur aunt passed away on chu 4. they can remember the days easily..'
then i said 'ya, then chu 5 eat ba zhang'

aunt was 57